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“Patience is a virtue, possess it if you can. Seldom in a woman, never in a man.” — Origin is debated.

Don’t stone me. I didn’t make that saying up, guys. :)

If you’ve been reading my blog for awhile and if you have downloaded and read Blog Eat Blog (hint), you may notice this thing I have about blogs that have “been around.” It’s my belief that you shouldn’t compare your success to theirs if your blog is new.

New bloggers with big aspirations come out of the gate with fury today, buying expensive books and subscriptions to this or that, with promises that by tomorrow, they will experience the incredible growth and reach of blogs like ProBlogger and Copyblogger. (If you haven’t you ought to read Oni Bamidele’s post that analyzes five top blogs. He’s spot on.)

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— Tia Peterson

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One of the recurring, underlying themes in the blogosphere is influence.

Domino Theory At Work

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This week, a few of the good posts revolving around influence included Kristi HinesHow to Find the Most Influential People on Twitter in Your Niche, which details some strategies you can use to develop relationships with people of influence, (with the ideal result being that you also increase yours).

One of my posts was published over at Big Girl Branding, If No One is Listening, It’s Time to Expand Your Circle, which outlines three sites where you can publish your work (so, going outside of your blog) to increase your reach aka influence.

Susan Murphy (suzemuse.com) wrote Why Are We So Hung Up on Influence, in which she questions whether we put too much importance in the idea of influence, particularly as it’s expressed in numbers (like Twitter Klout scores, etc.) It’s a great post and in terms of considering someone highly influential based on sheer volume, she’s right that that’s not the right way to look at it.

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I am a member of the ProBlogger.com forum, and we get newsletters every so often. In today’s newsletter, something caught my eye:

Challenge: 30 Day Comment Campaign

Have you noticed, due in part to the big CommentLuv/Famous Bloggers contest, that commenting is like, on hyper-drive lately? It seems that commenting has become (almost) as important as blogging – or even moreso!

Naturally, I was intrigued by the words “challenge” and “campaign” so I clicked through to the forum and read about it. What we’re doing over there is spending 30 days actually TRACKING our comments to see what kind of traffic is coming through. This isn’t really about increasing commenting. It’s about measuring the effectiveness of commenting in terms of traffic. You don’t want to waste time on something that doesn’t work; yet, you don’t want to miss out on a good source of traffic (if it even is a good source of traffic… for you).

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Criticism is extraordinarily helpful and at the same time, it can be extraordinarily destructive. It depends on where it is coming from.

Early on, I connected with someone I admire and believe has my best interests in mind. When he says something critical about what I am doing or writing, I accept it wholeheartedly. Why? Because I know that it’s going to help me. It’s intended to help and not to hurt.

If you don’t know anyone like that yet, you should connect with someone you can trust to be honest with you, or join a group or forum where everyone gets critiqued. The ProBlogger.com forum members do a great job at critiquing (I had my About page critiqued there). In this way, you can reflect on things you probably didn’t realize you were doing and now need to stop, but in a way that is much less confrontational than when someone sends you a biting email or tough comment.

Evaluating Criticsm

Regardless of where the criticism comes from, you should evaluate it. Two questions I tend to internalize before taking criticism to heart are:

  • Is it true?
  • Does it provide solutions and or alternatives, or does it just leave me hanging?

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