February 3, 2012

The Best Advice I Have Ever Received

The best advice I have ever received came from the late Dr. Johnny Mac Allen, my public relations and advertising professor/advisor in college, and, for the brief time that I got to share his company, a dear friend of mine.

His advice? Read.


He said that the very best thing we could do for ourselves, for our careers, and for our clients, was to read. Every class I took under him involved crazy amounts of reading and reporting. He let us choose what we wanted to read; I don’t think it was about the subject so much as it was about the act of reading. The lessons involved. The humbling experience – discovering that we do not know everything, that we will never know everything; embracing the idea that no matter how passionately we dream or how fiercely we pursue our goals, there is much more yet to learn.

Reading and Blogging – The Connection

I liken blogging to a form of public speaking – a blog is a virtual megaphone and the blogger is the activist. The more frequent the blogging, the more passionate the blogger appears. Often times, blogging is an outward activity – a giving experience.

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Even when we as bloggers are asking questions, it is still this outward, pushing exercise. Thing is, we only have so much to pour out. At some point, we have to rest, fill back up, and recalibrate. Constantly pouring out can be exhausting. If we don’t take the time to read, we put our credibility, authority and personal growth at risk.

Read, but don’t just read other blogs

This is especially true of full-time bloggers: it’s crucial to read something else other than a blog from time to time. Listen, sick as it sounds, there is so much regurgitation out there in the blogosphere. When I think about the world of bloggers, I sometimes envision a massive birds nest with a few big mama birds, and the rest just teeny baby birds with their mouths wide open, waiting for mama to cough up something good to eat and feed them.

Yuck!

Talk (and blogging) is cheap, so it’s mass produced. Go elsewhere and read a bit. I guess if you are not all that likely to pick up the latest hardcover novel or biography, peruse the magazine racks at your nearest bookstore and divulge your curiosity in something other than blogging.

This isn’t just a matter of personal growth, it’s a matter of the health of the blogosphere.

We need fresh meat – something other to consume than what has already been served up. Who will bring it to the table? Let’s not continue to wait for our Google RSS Readers to give us something to talk about. Life is happening all around us while (some) of us develop blogger’s tans (hehe, not me) and the rest develop blogger’s butt (yeah, I’m getting there). There are stories to be told and lessons to be found, and those can turn into good blog material. We just have to go find them.

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The Lovely BonesMy Sister's KeeperThe Camera My Mother Gave MeOne Hundred Years of SolitudeThe Giving TreeThe Great Gatsby

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thanks for sharing great post

I try not to read other blogs a few days before I write a post. The most important thing for me is to do something! If I have an outstanding experiment or challenge that I've accomplish, then I have my post. If not, I'll probably write something that someone else has already written about. Nice thoughts and good advice.
.-= Ralph´s last blog ..How to Keep Promises to Yourself =-.

Thanks, Ralph! That's really great advice.

I have been blogging for more than 6 years and I can agree with this. You will not learn any more and grow as a person if you stick to reading just blogs. There are a lot of great materials out there. My major is business (I went back to school in 2008 for a Bachelors program in it after I finished my Website Design degree) and there are a lot of people online that do not give enough information.

It could be based on experience and so that can be a limiting factor as each person has a varying degree of experience in their niche. My father actually had a lot of business-related books in his collection from his years in Amway, and they really helped. Norman Vincent Peale, Robert Kiyosaki, Donald Trump, and much more. Even though their experiences were different, I found inspiration.
.-= Nile´s last blog ..Blogger Versus WordPress =-.

Thanks, Nile! I love that last line - that even though their experiences were different, you found inspiration. I feel the same way!

Hi Maranda! Yeah, the bird's nest analogy came to me a few days ago and it stuck. I definitely do not have a negative view of the blogging world; it's just important to kind of reach outside of it and carry some things back in, since it can get stuffy in here. :) Thanks so much for your comment.

You make some great points here! The birds nest analogy is fantastic, I never really thought about it that way, but you're completely right. Expanding our way of thinking is going to open up ideas that we might not have ever thought about. I currently don't have anything on my reading list, so I'm open to suggestions :) Thanks for the great post.
.-= Maranda GIbson´s last blog ..The Frayed Knot =-.

Love it, great points. I used to wonder how my dad was so smart. I think besides the fact that he is always surrounded by smart people, he reads a ton, about everything. I wish I had more time to do that!
I am currently reading Blink by Malcolm Gladwell and would recommend anything by him!
.-= Dana´s last blog ..Lets make a deal! =-.

Hi Dana! I haven't read Blink yet but I will put it on my to-do. If it's as good as The Tipping Point it will be well-worth it. He's brilliant.

Hi
This is a great post. I've been on the fence about re-posting what other bloggers have done. You make some great points and I think you are right, do you want to lead or do you want to follow? I know what I want and I shouldn't follow if I want to lead.
Thanks for making that clear to me!
I am reading The Hormone Diet by Natasha Turner, I am really liking it.
.-= Kristin Glasbergen´s last blog ..To Eat Or Not To Eat =-.

Hey Kristin - Absolutely! If you're a leader, it's OK to lead. The hard part is being brave; it's easier to write about what everyone is talking about. It's a bandwagon thing.

LOL oh come on, Tola! You have to at least give us a hint. :) Thanks for your comments. I don't read as much as I used to, either, which is why those three books are still on the "currently reading" shelf. Actually I have to go add another one I forgot about - called How We Decide by Jonah Lehrer. Awesome book.

Good one, Tia.
Its funny cos for me, it was actually the other way round. I loved reading (still do infact, but sadly not enough hours in the day to continue enjoying it like I should) and my dad always used to say I should be a writer, and I just laughed! But now I'm into blogging and I definitely enjoy it. I don't read as much as I used to but, I still make an effort to get in a couple of books every now and then, be it friction, motivational books or even a textbook!

At the moment, I'm in between books though, ordered a book now so waiting for that in the post , its a feel-good book, that's all I'm saying!
.-= Tola F. @ SEO For Beginners´s last blog ..Guest Blogging Sites - Great for Bloggers =-.

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